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What Does Long-Term Family Violence Do to You?

By Kathy Broady MSW 15 Comments

    What happens when you live with violence for years of time? When violence happens every day, or every other day, or every week? How do you cope with that much fear and chaos? How do save yourself from falling into a deep, dark depression? What happens to your sense of trust? What do you do with your own huge feelings? What if you are trapped in that situation and don’t know how to remove … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Domestic Violence, emotional pain, Family Members of Trauma Survivors, Fear, Featured post #1, Physical Abuse, Prevention of Sexual Abuse, sexual abuse, Trauma Tagged With: Domestic Violence, Effects of chronic violence, Emotional Abuse, Family Violence, Leaving violence and abuse, Living in chronic violence, Living with a Violent Narcissist, Making a safety plan, Physical Abuse, Safety First, Separating from abusers, You don't have to be hurt anymore, You need safety

10 Reasons Why it’s Hard to Leave Perpetrators and Abusers

By Kathy Broady MSW 15 Comments

  Leaving the perpetrators. Separating from the bad guys. Putting distance between yourself and the person / persons who are hurting you, no matter who they are. This is a huge topic in the treatment process for most dissociative trauma survivors.  Safety.  Obtaining safety from the people who are hurting your mind, body, soul, and spirit. Dissociative trauma survivors who had an entire childhood entangled … [Read more...]

Filed Under: DID Education, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Domestic Violence, emotional pain, Family Members of Trauma Survivors, Fear, Featured Posts #4, Physical Abuse, Prevention of Sexual Abuse, Ritual Abuse, sexual abuse, Therapy Homework Ideas, Trauma Tagged With: Adult-aged sexual abuse, Chronic long term abuse, Domestic Violence, Dysfunctional Family, Leaving the offender, Physical Abuse, Separating from the abuse, Separating from the perpetrator, sexual abuse, Verbal abuse, Years of sexual abuse

SAFETY FIRST: Assessing Safety of Sexual Abuse Survivors

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This SAFETY FIRST post is one of the very first posts ever written on Discussing Dissociation,  and purposefully so, because of the importance of this topic. This post was recently reblogged by Trauma and Dissociation -- thank you. Having safety in your life is absolutely crucial and critical for healing for dissociative survivors, so it is good to bring this topic back up to the surface again. Be safe everyone -- … [Read more...]

Filed Under: DID Education, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Domestic Violence, Internal Communication, Physical Abuse, Ritual Abuse, Self Injury, sexual abuse, Therapy Homework Ideas, Trauma Tagged With: Be safe, Current Day Abuse, DID Therapy, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Domestic Violence, Ongoing Abuse, Physical Abuse, RA / SRA, Safety First, Safety from Sexual Abuse, sexual abuse

Three Difficult Scenarios involving Fathers

By Kathy Broady MSW 82 Comments

  It’s Father’s Day.  Father's Day is all about those endearing, positive, caring fathers.  But what about the abusive fathers? Fathers.  Yep, fathers are as difficult a topic for dissociative trauma survivors as mothers. Fathers often are heavily involved in the trauma history for dissociative survivors.  Most DID survivors I know have far too many painful memories involving their fathers.   I decided I … [Read more...]

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Who Really Did It? Re: Teen Dating Abuse

By Kathy Broady MSW 12 Comments

The advertising for General Hospital's segment on teen violence / teen dating abuse** caught my attention.  I decided I would check out this "Must See Week!" since the topic is such an important one, especially after all the media coverage of the Chris Brown / Rhianna abusive incident.  Today's teenagers do need to know about domestic violence issues, and I was hoping that General Hospital would do the topic … [Read more...]

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