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Was it now? Is it then? Will the Abuse Ever End?

By Kathy Broady MSW 22 Comments

  Hello, hello, It's getting closer to Halloween, and as October happens, I'm quite sure that many of you are struggling with trauma memories, flashbacks, body memories, and the whole range of PTSD symptoms after experiencing trauma and abuse.   Sometimes it feels like the trauma will never end! But it does. I promise you, it does end.  It can end, and it does end.   You haven't lived forever so the … [Read more...]

Filed Under: DID Education, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, emotional pain, Fear, Kathy's Video Comments, mental health, Mind Control, Ritual Abuse, Therapy and Counseling, Therapy Homework Ideas Tagged With: Abuse, Body Memories, Childhood Sexual Abuse, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Dissociative Trauma Survivor, Flashbacks, Healing from Ritual Abuse, Kathy's video comments, Separating from the abuse, That was then, This is now, Time Distortion, Trauma

When the Painful Past is the Painful Present

By Kathy Broady MSW 64 Comments

  Hello, how are you today?  Are you reading from your painful past, or are you here, in a painful present?  Does it feel like the here-and-now?  Or the way back when?  Or is Then the same as Now? I've been thinking about this topic of Past vs Present for awhile now.  I know I have written about time distortion, memory recall, flashbacks, body memories, trauma processing and all those things before.  (Please … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Child Alters, DID Education, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, emotional pain, Fear, Trauma Tagged With: Bad Days, Body Memories, DID / MPD, Disorders, Dissociation, dissociative, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Dreams, Flashbacks, Health, Hurting, Kathy, Kathy Broady, Memories, Memory Recall, mental health, Nightmares, pain, Put the past in the past, Time, Time Distortion, Trauma, Trauma Processing

Three Difficult Scenarios involving Fathers

By Kathy Broady MSW 83 Comments

  It’s Father’s Day.  Father's Day is all about those endearing, positive, caring fathers.  But what about the abusive fathers? Fathers.  Yep, fathers are as difficult a topic for dissociative trauma survivors as mothers. Fathers often are heavily involved in the trauma history for dissociative survivors.  Most DID survivors I know have far too many painful memories involving their fathers.   I decided I … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Child Alters, Depression, DID Education, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, emotional pain, Family Members of Trauma Survivors, Fear, Featured Middle #3, Physical Abuse, Self Injury, sexual abuse, Trauma Tagged With: Abandonment, Abuse, Addictions, Anger, Anxiety, Body Memories, Child Abuse, Childhood rules, Depression, DID / MPD, DID Survivors, Dissociation, Dissociative Identity Disorder, emotional pain, Family rules, Father Issues, Fathers, Fathers as Perpetrators, Fathers that abandon their children, Fathers who are abusive, Fear, Flashbacks, Happy Father's Day, Healing, Internal Systems, Kathy Broady, Making your own decisions, Painful, Perpetrators, Physical Abuse, Saying No, Self Destruction, Self Esteem, sexual abuse, splitting, Splitting Process, Trauma Survivors

Happy Easter – If not now, then soon.

By Kathy Broady MSW 23 Comments

    Hello hello – How are you today? It is close to Easter, and I wanted to come and say a quick hello to you all. Easter can be a fun time full of good memories for people who have not been abused in ritualistic cults.  People who have an RA history might not be feeling so wonderful right about now.   Do you have any scared child parts right now?  Do you relate to that big picture up … [Read more...]

Filed Under: DID Education, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, emotional pain, mental health, Prevention of Sexual Abuse, Puppies, Ritual Abuse, Trauma Tagged With: beginning of freedom, Body Memories, DID / MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Easter, Flashbacks, Happiness, Kathy Broady, making changes, new beginnings, pretty flowers, Spring, traumatic history, Traumatic Memories, your life belongs to you

A Double-Sided Halloween Weekend

By Kathy Broady MSW 31 Comments

  It’s Halloween weekend again -- a season full of flashbacks and trauma for many dissociative trauma survivors.  It feels dark.  It feels scary.  In some ways, it's the worst time of the year, and if this is the case, the flashbacks are pretty horrific.  So......... let's do a less scary flashback with this article.    Think back to 2010.  That year, back in 2010, I was reminded of the dichotomy our society … [Read more...]

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