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Happy Holiday Greetings, and Ending those Unhappy Holidays

By Kathy Broady MSW 6 Comments

  Happy Holiday Greetings!   I hope you have had a great holiday season so far.  My hope is that you are making these days as beautiful and special for yourself as you can.   There are lots of ways to provide Christmas cheer for your DID system, even if you are in a rough spot. Please read through this blog if you don't know what I'm talking about.     Holidays are not always fun … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Anxiety, Child Alters, Depression, DID Education, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Domestic Violence, emotional pain, Family Members of Trauma Survivors, Fun!, Physical Abuse, Prevention of Sexual Abuse, Puppies Tagged With: Christmas puppies, Dysfunctional Family, Happy Christmas, Happy Holidays, Holiday greetings, Merry Christmas Animals, Silver kelpies, Unhappy holidays

10 Reasons Why it’s Hard to Leave Perpetrators and Abusers

By Kathy Broady MSW 14 Comments

  Leaving the perpetrators. Separating from the bad guys. Putting distance between yourself and the person / persons who are hurting you, no matter who they are. This is a huge topic in the treatment process for most dissociative trauma survivors.  Safety.  Obtaining safety from the people who are hurting your mind, body, soul, and spirit. Dissociative trauma survivors who had an entire childhood entangled … [Read more...]

Filed Under: DID Education, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Domestic Violence, emotional pain, Family Members of Trauma Survivors, Fear, Featured Posts #4, Physical Abuse, Prevention of Sexual Abuse, Ritual Abuse, sexual abuse, Therapy Homework Ideas, Trauma Tagged With: Adult-aged sexual abuse, Chronic long term abuse, Domestic Violence, Dysfunctional Family, Leaving the offender, Physical Abuse, Separating from the abuse, Separating from the perpetrator, sexual abuse, Verbal abuse, Years of sexual abuse

20 Types of Dissociative Splits

By Kathy Broady MSW 116 Comments

    It always amazes me when dissociative trauma survivors tell me that after they've met three or four of their inside alters (or maybe even a few more than that, but not many), that they think they've met everyone in their system.  They think they don't have that many dissociative splits in their DID system, or they think that they are "done" meeting their insiders. That never makes sense to me.  Oh, I … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Child Alters, DID Education, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Featured Post #2, Internal Communication, Kathy's Video Comments, Ritual Abuse, sexual abuse, Therapy and Counseling, Trauma Tagged With: Abuse, Abusive Fathers, Abusive mothers, Abusive Parents, Child Parts, Denial, DID Treatment, DID/MPD, Dissociation, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Dissociative Splits, Dysfunctional Family, Emotion, Emotional Containment, Floaters, Health, Host Parts, Internal System Helpers, Internal Systems, Introjects, Kathy Broady, Loyalty, Memory Work, mental health, Mind Control, multiple personality disorder, Organized Perpetrators, Programming, PTSD, Roles within the system, splitting, Trauma, Trauma Survivors, treatment for DID, Types of Alters for DID, Types of Splitting

Being Hated, Feeling Hated, Overcoming Self-Hatred

By Kathy Broady MSW 48 Comments

  Practically every dissociative trauma survivor that I have spoken to has said to me that at some point in time or another, they have felt hated, truly hated.      What's worse, they didn't feel hated by strangers -- they felt hated by their loved ones. These trauma survivors felt hated by their mothers, their fathers, their siblings, their spouses, their children, their friends.  They felt hatred from the … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Depression, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, emotional pain, Family Members of Trauma Survivors, Self Injury, sexual abuse, Therapy and Counseling, Trauma, trauma therapist Tagged With: Abuse, abused children, Abusive Parents, Boundaries, Burning, Compassion, cutting, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Dysfunctional Family, Emotion, emotional pain, Feeling special, Feeling Suicidal, Hate Crimes, Hated by Others, Hatred, Hatred of Self, Health, Healthy Boundaries, I hate myself, Kathy Broady, Kindness, Loneliness, Martin Luther King, mental health, Neglected Children, Sadness, Self Harm, self hate, Self Injury, Self-hatred, Self-loathing, sexual abuse, Sexually Abused, Sexually Abused Children, Social Isolation, Suicidal Behaviors, Suicidal Thinking, Support Groups, Trauma Survivors, Trauma Therapy, Worthlessness

Split Decisions

By Kathy Broady MSW 17 Comments

  When you have Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID or DID/MPD), and you’re thinking as a multiple personality -- thus having a multitude of different thoughts at once time -- it can be very difficult to make decisions.   How do survivors with DID ever make up their minds? How do survivors with DID decide whose opinion to follow? How do survivors with DID ever decide what is best for … [Read more...]

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