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Where Did I Put My Keys?

By Kathy Broady MSW 12 Comments

Last night I lost my keys in the office.   It was a silly ordeal – they were hanging right where I last put them – but it took me awhile to remember where that was. I had a little help finding them, and I am really thankful that Mr. Janitor Man was so very kind.  He was patient with me, looking everywhere with me while I retraced my steps of the evening.  We looked under couches, in between cushions, under … [Read more...]

Filed Under: DID Education, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Internal Communication, therapy, Therapy and Counseling, Therapy Homework Ideas, trauma therapist Tagged With: Amnesia, Amnesiac Barriers, Appreciation, Cooperation, DID / MPD, DID Specialist, DID Survivor, DID Therapist, DID Therapy, dissociative, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Dissociative Walls, Helpers, Host Part, Internal Communication, Internal Cooperation, Internal System, Internal System Helpers, Janitor, Kathy Broady, Lost Car Keys, Lost Keys, mental health, Sabotage, Self-sabotage, System Communication, System Cooperation, System Parts, System Sabotage, System Work, Talking Inside, Talking Through, Talking Together, Trauma Survivors, Treatment Goals for DID

Protecting Your Therapeutic Relationship and the Therapeutic Community

By Kathy Broady MSW 106 Comments

  There are thousands of clinical therapists in the world.   However, of all the therapists in the world, only a few work with trauma and PTSD.   Of all the trauma therapists, only a few work with the areas of sexual abuse and severe trauma.   Of those therapists, only a few work with dissociative disorders, DID/MPD and DDNOS.   Of the DID therapists, only a very few work with issues relating to … [Read more...]

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30 Potential Blocks in the Therapy Process for Dissociative Trauma Survivors

By Kathy Broady MSW 57 Comments

The healing process for dissociative trauma survivors is very long, involved and complex, and of course, the therapy process for the treatment of Dissociative Identity Disorder is full of many potential blocks, complications, detours, messes, digressions, etc. The article, 50 Treatment Issues for Dissociative Identity Disorder, lists out many of the steps involved in trauma therapy.  How can dissociative trauma … [Read more...]

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Working with Difficult and Destructive Alters

By Kathy Broady MSW 70 Comments

  I'm going to take a slight detour in the internal communication series and write a little about working with difficult alters (aka insiders, inners, system parts, inside people, etc).  It is crucial to work with these internal parts, no matter how challenging and hopeless things seem in the beginning.  Your therapy and healing will never be resolved unless you approach the issues connected with these difficult … [Read more...]

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