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DID Trauma Survivors and Getting Support from Other People – or not?

By Kathy Broady MSW 25 Comments

  Dissociative trauma survivors need emotional support. However, this can be difficult to achieve. As the show, "United States of Tara" is gradually starting to demonstrate, survivors with Dissociative Identity Disorder have friends and family members that offer varying levels of support: Those that find dissociative trauma survivors to be really good, kind, decent, and wonderful people, and will stand by them … [Read more...]

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10 Qualities Therapists Recognize in Good Clients, part 2

By Kathy Broady MSW 11 Comments

Hello, I hope this day finds you doing well. The first part of this article certainly caused a little stir, and maybe raised a few eyebrows along the way.  Please know, my intention in posting these blogs is not to offend anyone.  If you have any questions or concerns about anything I've posted, please comment and let me know what you're thinking!  And here's a big Thank You! to the folks who did comment to the … [Read more...]

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Working with Cult – RA – Mind Control and Extreme Torture and Abuse

By Kathy Broady MSW 40 Comments

      "Have you worked with clients that have 'extreme torture' trauma history in cult-RA and/or mind-control (governmental experiments)? If so, what has worked?"       Thanks for the question.  What a doozy!!!   Yes, I have worked with trauma survivors that have talked about extreme torture, cult / RA abuse, mind control and governmental experiment traumas.  Bunches of clients through the years have … [Read more...]

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Therapy for Dissociative Trauma Survivors

By Kathy Broady MSW 9 Comments

    What is therapy?  What is a therapist? What is the therapy process? And how can you tell if they’re any good?     What is therapy? In my experience, therapy is about speaking the unspeakable.  It’s the telling of things that you haven’t had the safety or the opportunity to tell before.  It’s expressing your deepest feelings without have to edit or omit or pretend for the sake of someone … [Read more...]

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