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Sorting through Transference Issues

By Kathy Broady MSW 26 Comments

  In response to some questions asked about my previous blog article about Mother’s Day, I’ve decided to follow up with an additional post on the topic of transference.  Transference isn’t necessarily an exciting topic, but it is fundamentally important to understanding the dissociative therapy treatment process.  Hopefully, this article will help to clarify more about the importance of these … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Child Alters, DID Education, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, emotional pain, Family Members of Trauma Survivors, therapy, Therapy and Counseling, Therapy Homework Ideas, Transference Issues, Trauma, trauma therapist Tagged With: Abandonment, Abandonment Issues, Abuse by Mothers, Abusive Family Dynamics, Child Parts, DID / MPD, DID Survivors, DID Therapy, Displacement, Displacing Issues, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Distraction, emotional pain, Externalizing Responsibility, Family Dynamics, Father Transference, Goals for DID Therapy, Healing, Honest communication, Honesty, Kathy Broady, Maternal Abuse, Maternal Transference, Momma Trauma, Mother Abuse, Mother Fantasies, Mother Neglect, Mother Transference, Mother's Day, Mothers, Motivation, pain, Roles of Therapists, Surrogate Target, Talking with your therapist, Therapeutic Process, therapy, Transference, Transference Issues, Trauma Survivors, trauma therapist, Unresolved Mother Issues, Wasted Therapy, What is transference?, Working through mother issues

Picturing a Group of Insiders – a Dissociative System

By Kathy Broady MSW 13 Comments

describing Dissociative Identity Disorder

  Isn’t this an interesting picture of Dissociative Identity Disorder?!     Assuming the artist of this picture is a trauma survivor with Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID / MPD), this drawing shows many of the system insiders.  I can't say that I know this person has DID for sure -- meaning -- I haven't met the artist, I haven't met their inside people, I haven't met the treatment team, and I … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Artwork, Child Alters, DID Education, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Internal Communication, Self Injury, sexual abuse, Trauma Tagged With: Cat, Cat-child, Cats, Child Parts, DID / MPD, DID Artwork, DID Survivors, Disorders, Dissociation, dissociative, dissociative disorders, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Health, Hidden Child Parts, Hidden in the Shadows, Hiding, Internal Communication, Internal Systems, Kathy Broady, mental health, pain, Pictures of DID, Picturing Dissociation, Protector Parts, Self Harm, Self Injury, Sex Slavery, sexual abuse, Sexual Exploitation, Shadows, SI, Trauma Survivor, What dissociation looks like

Picturing the Healing Process for Dissociative Identity Disorder

By Kathy Broady MSW 11 Comments

  This set of picture-postcards demonstrates a passage through time for a trauma survivor with Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID / MPD). These pictures show different phases of the dissociative healing process, and illustrate how healing occurs.  Notice that they move from a more shattered, painful, chaotic place to a calmer, structured, organized place.  Where there is originally nothing but a fragmented … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Artwork, Depression, DID Education, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, emotional pain, Integration - yes or no, Internal Communication, mental health, Self Injury, sexual abuse, Therapy and Counseling, Therapy Homework Ideas, Trauma, trauma therapist Tagged With: Abuse, Amnesia, Artwork, cutting, Depression, DID / MPD, DID Art, DID Artwork, DID Survivors, dissociative disorders, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Dissociative Walls, Embroidery, emotional pain, Goals for DID Therapy, Grief, Growth, Healing, Healing from DID, Healing from Sexual Abuse, Healing Process, Health, Integration Process, Kathy Broady, mental health, multiple personality disorder, pain, Pictures of DID, Pictures of Dissociative Identity Disorder, Picturing Dissociation, Progress, Remembering, Sadness, Self Harm, Self Injury, sexual abuse, SI, Stitching, Suicidal Ideation, Suicidal Thoughts, Support Groups, Trauma, Trauma Survivors, Treatment Goals for DID

Hopelessness and Despair

By Kathy Broady MSW 41 Comments

  Some days just feel too hard. Those days feel like you just can’t make it through… Those are the days when you wish you could curl up in a ball, and sleep or stare all day long… Or hide away forever…     Ever had a day like that? Ever felt like your problems were just toooooo big? Or tooooo never-ending?  Or tooooo all-encompassing? Ever felt overwhelmed with hopelessness? Or … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Depression, DID Education, Dissociative Identity Disorder, emotional pain, Self Injury Tagged With: Albert Einstein, Amnesiac Walls, Attacks, Betrayal, Carrie Underwood, Courage, Creative, Depression, Despair, DID / MPD, DID Survivors, DID Treatment, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Emotional Overwhelm, emotional pain, Fear, Healing, Healthy Relationships, heartbreak, Hope, Hopelessness, Insiders, Internal System Helpers, Kathy Broady, Overwhelm, pain, Relief, Respect, Sadness, Self Injury, SI, Suffering, Trauma, Trauma Survivors

Compulsive Hoarding and Dissociative Disorders

By Kathy Broady MSW 40 Comments

Compulsive Hoarding is a cluttery mess!! What makes this happen? Have you seen homes that look like this? Does your home look like this? Are you also a dissociative trauma survivor?   Compulsive hoarding, or disposophobia, is a psychiatric condition that affects millions of people.   Compulsive hoarding is an obsessive need to acquire and keep possessions, even if these items have little value, are … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Child Alters, Compulsive Hoarding, Depression, DID Education, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, emotional pain, Internal Communication, mental health, therapy, Therapy and Counseling, Therapy Homework Ideas, Trauma, trauma therapist Tagged With: Addictions, Anxiety, Attachment Issues, Attachment to Things, Avoidance, Chaotic, Chaotic Thinking, Child Parts, Cleaning, Cleaning up messes, Cleaning your house, Clutter, Compulsive Hoarding, Confusion, Depression, DID / MPD, DID Survivors, disorganized behavior, Disorganized thinking, disposophobia, dissociative disorders, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Eating Disorders, emotional pain, Grief, Healing, Health, hoarder, Hoarders, Hoarders: Buried Alive, Hoarding, Household Cleaning, Humiliation, Internal Communication, Kathy Broady, Keeping Clutter, Loss, Memory Loss, mental health, Messes, my house is a big mess, my house is an embarrassment, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, OCD, Organization, pain, Retail Therapy, Sadness, Shame, Trauma Disorders, trauma therapist, Trauma Therapy

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