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I’m Thankful for the Readers of this Blog

By Kathy Broady MSW 27 Comments

  It’s Thanksgiving weekend here in the US, and besides the wonderful traditional family meal and pleasant times with my kids, this time frame reminds me of something else. Discussing Dissociation has been up and visible for nearly one year now.  Yep, in a few days, it will be a year already! Wow.  Where has the time gone??!!! There is truth to the saying that time flies, or is it because time flies when … [Read more...]

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Split Decisions

By Kathy Broady MSW 38 Comments

  When you have Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID or DID/MPD), and you’re thinking as a multiple personality -- thus having a multitude of different thoughts at once time -- it can be very difficult to make decisions.   How do survivors with DID ever make up their minds? How do survivors with DID decide whose opinion to follow? How do survivors with DID ever decide what is best for … [Read more...]

Filed Under: DID Education, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Internal Communication, sexual abuse, Trauma Tagged With: Abuse, Abusive Parents, Amnesia, Amnesiac Wall, Conflict, Conflicting Emotions, Control Issues, Decision Making, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Dissociative Wall, Dysfunctional Family, Emotional Conflict, emotional pain, heartbreak, High-risk behaviors, Independent Thinking, Internal Chaos, Internal Communication, Kathy Broady, Learning to Think, Manipulation, Mixed Feelings, multiple personality disorder, Multiplicity, Sex Offender, sexual abuse, Sexual Assault, Sexually Abused, Sexually Abused Children, split personality, splitting, System Work, Think for yourself, Trauma, Trauma Survivors, trauma therapist, Trauma Therapy, Treatment Goal for DID, Wounding

Do You Believe Everything you Read?

By Kathy Broady MSW 5 Comments

  Do you believe everything you read? Do you believe everything you hear?   I realize "inquiring minds want to know" and gossip can seem initially enticing, but seriously, how much credence do you give to what other people have to say about anything? How do you decide the difference between a credible source and a shoddy source? How can you tell when you are being manipulated or tricked? What critical … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Child Alters, DID Education, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, mental health, Mind Control, therapy, Therapy and Counseling Tagged With: Alters, Amnesiac Wall, Child Parts, Conflict, Credability, Critical Thinking, Deceit, DID/MPD, Discredit, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Dissociative Walls, Forced Perspective, Gossip, Independent Thinking, Kathy Broady, Manipulation, mental health, Opinion, Predator, Protecting Child Parts, therapy, Thinking, Thinking for yourself

Working with Difficult and Destructive Alters

By Kathy Broady MSW 62 Comments

  I'm going to take a slight detour in the internal communication series and write a little about working with difficult alters.  It is crucial to work with these internal parts, no matter how challenging and hopeless things seem in the beginning.  Your therapy and healing will never be resolved unless you approach the issues connected with these difficult insiders. And for that matter, the whole process of … [Read more...]

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