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I’m Not Gonna Miss You

By Kathy Broady MSW 7 Comments

  Alzheimer's takes so much away. The person you knew and loved is not there anymore. You can still see them, but it's not them. They are there, but they are gone.  They are no longer standing as who they once were. They've fallen, and become someone else. Alzheimer's is such a tragic disease. Most of us have lost loved ones to one form of disease or another.  Disease, injuries,  accidents, illnesses. All … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Depression, emotional pain, Family Members of Trauma Survivors, mental health, The Power of Music, Trauma Tagged With: Alzheimer's, Depersonalzation, Emotional Distance, emotional pain, Glen Campbell, Grief, I'm Not Gonna Miss You, Loss, Separation

A Painful Mother’s Day – the Cards Not Written

By Kathy Broady MSW 40 Comments

  Last week, I couldn’t find the words to write about the struggles that so many dissociative survivors have on Mother’s Day.  Sometimes, Mother's Day is a very painful day. In response to that, a dissociative survivor emailed me, and has given me permission to post their thoughts about the painful side of Mother’s Day. Maybe you will relate to these difficult thoughts and painful feelings.   Every … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Depression, Dissociative Identity Disorder, emotional pain, Family Members of Trauma Survivors, Prevention of Sexual Abuse, Self Injury, sexual abuse, Trauma Tagged With: Angry, cards not written, Celebrations, childless, cutting, Discussing Dissociation, emotional pain, Feeling alone, Grief, Grieving, Hallmark Cards, hate, Heartache, Hurting, Intense Feelings, Jealousy, Kathy Broady, Loss, lovely mothers, molestation, Momma Trauma, Mother's Day, Mother's Day cards, not celebrating, obligation, Over-eating, Painful, protecting kids, protection of children, Sad, Self Destruction, Self Injury, sexual abuse, unable to have children, unhappy, very alone, worst day of the year

Momma Larks – A Job Well Done

By Kathy Broady MSW 7 Comments

  Mothers.   Mothers are a difficult topic. Mother's Day is a difficult day. Complicated. Painful. Often a day of loss and grieving. A day that many dissociative survivors don’t want to think about. Ouch. If only…. If only, if only…..   I’ve been thinking about these things all week, knowing I would / should write something about mothers.   Hmmmmm….  I wasn’t sure which angle to talk about…. Then I … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Child Alters, emotional pain, Family Members of Trauma Survivors, Maggies, Prevention of Sexual Abuse, Stories for Child Insiders Tagged With: Bird, Complicated Mothers, Crow, dedication, DID / MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Grieving, Happy Mother's Day, how to be a good mom, If only, Kathy Broady, Lark, larks, Loss, Maggies, magpies, mean birds, mom, momma, mommy, Mother, Mother's Day, Mother's Day 2012, mum, Neglect, nurturing, Painful, Painful days, smart birds, Thank you, Thank You Mom, Thankful, Wishing for a different mother

When Life Changes….. Even this Blog Changes !

By Kathy Broady MSW 19 Comments

  Life is full of changes.    At least that’s how I have found it to be. Has your life stayed the same through the years? Mine hasn’t.  Not at all. And 2011, in particular, was a year full of changes.  Lots of changes.  Lots of big, big, big, super big, like rocking my whole world, big changes.  I didn't know what to expect after completely changing my life in 2011, but I looked forward to good … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Child Alters, DID Education, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Therapy Homework Ideas Tagged With: Adventure walks, Changes, Happy New Year, How are you?, Kathy Broady, Life changes, Loss, Lots of changes

A Real Unicorn?!! Really?

By Kathy Broady MSW 24 Comments

This article is written for the child parts of the DID survivors that read this blog. Hey Kids, did you see the news yesterday?  Hmmmm…. probably not, because most kids don’t watch the news.  And because of that, I wanted to make sure to let you know about something I saw in the news that might interest you.   Look!  Look!   They found something that looks like a real unicorn!!     If you look … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Child Alters, DID Education, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Fun!, Stories for Child Insiders, Therapy Homework Ideas, Trauma Tagged With: Abuse, AbuseConsultants.com, Amnesia, Betrayal, Child Development, Child Parts, Childhood Development, Childhood Needs, Childhood Playtime, Childhood Sexual Abuse, Childhood Trauma, Corrective Emotional Experience, DID / MPD, DID Survivor, Dissociative Amnesia, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Dissociative Walls, emotional pain, Grief, Have fun!, Internal System, Kathy Broady, Kid Parts, Loss, Multiples, Neglect, Sadness, Sexually Abused Children, Too much pain, Trauma, Trauma Survivor, Treatment Goals for DID, Unicorn, Unicorn found in Italy, Unmet Needs, Working with child parts

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