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The Emotional Container of Abuse

By Kathy Broady MSW 5 Comments

  Emotional abuse. This is a complicated topic.  It's a topic I've tried to explain to many dissociative trauma survivors many many times.   The concept of emotional abuse can be hard to grasp.  This is because the trauma survivor often internalizes the perpetrator's offensive verbage, believing it to be true.  But it's not true.  Not at all. In this article, I will describe one example of the dynamic of a … [Read more...]

Filed Under: DID Education, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Domestic Violence, emotional pain, Family Members of Trauma Survivors, Fear, Friends of Multiples, Introjects, mental health, Physical Abuse, Prevention of Sexual Abuse, Therapy Homework Ideas, Trauma Tagged With: Building a backbone, Building a wall, Container of emotions, Create a boundary, Creating Safety, Darkness, Dysfunctional Relationships, Emotional Abuse, Emotional boundaries, Family Violence, Hatred, Projection of emotion, rage, Refusing abuse, Safety First, That's not me, ugliness, Verbal abuse, Wall off the abuse, your darkness

United States of Tara is Integrated Now? Really?

By Kathy Broady MSW 47 Comments

So here we go again. The second season of the Showtime series "United States of Tara" starring the Emmy Award winner Toni Collette has begun. The first season was full of controversial episodes, and most of the survivor population with dissociative identity disorder was disappointed and angered by the series.  Even though some of the best-known trauma psychiatrists were allegedly acting as advisors for the show, … [Read more...]

Filed Under: DID Education, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Family Members of Trauma Survivors, Friends of Multiples, Integration - yes or no, Internal Communication, Supportive Spouses, therapy, Therapy and Counseling, trauma therapist, United States of Tara Tagged With: AbuseConsultants.com, Acceptance, Best Comedy Actress, Compassion, Dallas TX, Diablo Cody, DID / MPD, DID Survivors, DID Therapy, DID Treatment, Discussing Dissociation, Dissociation, dissociative disorders, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Dissociative Walls, Emmy Winner, Failure to integrate, False Integrations, Forced Integrations, Hatred, Hatred of Self, Hospitalizations, Hospitalizations for DID Therapy, Integration, Internal Communication, Kathy Broady, Kindness, Maintaining Integrations, multiple personality disorder, Not integrated, Self Acceptance, Self-hatred, Showtime Series, Steven Speilberg, SurvivorForum, Switching, Tara, Toni Collette, Trauma Survivors, trauma therapist, United States of Tara, You don't have to integrate

Being Hated, Feeling Hated, Overcoming Self-Hatred

By Kathy Broady MSW 51 Comments

  Practically every dissociative trauma survivor that I have spoken to has said to me that at some point in time or another, they have felt hated, truly hated.      What's worse, they didn't feel hated by strangers -- they felt hated by their loved ones. These trauma survivors felt hated by their mothers, their fathers, their siblings, their spouses, their children, their friends.  They felt hatred from the … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Depression, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, emotional pain, Family Members of Trauma Survivors, Self Injury, sexual abuse, Therapy and Counseling, Trauma, trauma therapist Tagged With: Abuse, abused children, Abusive Parents, Boundaries, Burning, Compassion, cutting, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Dysfunctional Family, Emotion, emotional pain, Feeling special, Feeling Suicidal, Hate Crimes, Hated by Others, Hatred, Hatred of Self, Health, Healthy Boundaries, I hate myself, Kathy Broady, Kindness, Loneliness, Martin Luther King, mental health, Neglected Children, Sadness, Self Harm, self hate, Self Injury, Self-hatred, Self-loathing, sexual abuse, Sexually Abused, Sexually Abused Children, Social Isolation, Suicidal Behaviors, Suicidal Thinking, Support Groups, Trauma Survivors, Trauma Therapy, Worthlessness

What if you don’t like being Multiple?

By Kathy Broady MSW 61 Comments

  This week, the readers here have posted a wide variety of reactions to the idea that being multiple could have benefits.  If you haven't yet read all the comments on that blog, please do so.  They are very interesting. When people have DID/MPD, they have experienced life as a multiple since their childhood.  It is their norm - basically the only way of life they know.  Multiples typically have not experienced … [Read more...]

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