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What Did Your Mother Teach You?

By Kathy Broady MSW 29 Comments

  Mother’s Day.  Mother's Day is a hard day for a lot of dissociative trauma survivors.  It’s a day full of mixed emotions, painful longings, unhealed heartbreak.   It's so complicated, especially when you think about how important  mothers are to their children, and what their behavior teaches their children. Mother's Day hurts the people who were hurt so much by their mothers. Mothers are a complicated subject, … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Child Alters, DID Education, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, emotional pain, Family Members of Trauma Survivors, therapy, Therapy and Counseling, Therapy Homework Ideas, Transference Issues, Trauma, trauma therapist Tagged With: Abandoned by my mother, Abandonment, Abuse, Abusive mothers, Bad Mothers, Caring, Child Parts, Compassion, Compassionate Women, Corrective Emotional Experience, DID / MPD, DID Survivors, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Dissociative Survivors, Dissociative System, Emotional Healing, emotional pain, Female Therapist, Gentleness, Good Mothers, Guilt, Healing, Hurtful Mothers, Kathy Broady, Kid Parts, Kindness, Mother Issues, Mother Transference, Mother's Day, my mother abandoned me, Neglectful Mothers, Patience, Projection, Safe Therapists, Self-less, Separate the past from the present, Shame, Transference, Transference Issues, Trauma, Trauma Survivors, trauma therapist, Trauma Therapy, Working through mother issues

Do You Need Faith to Overcome the Effects of Trauma?

By Kathy Broady MSW 50 Comments

  FAITH ??! Do you need faith to overcome the negative effects of trauma?   Faith?  Isn't that a religious or spiritual term, Kathy?   Don’t worry – I’m not a preacher – I’m not going to preach at you.   But I do believe in a thing called faith.   I do believe there is goodness and light in the world.  And I believe there is evil and darkness in the world.  There can be many complex, complicated … [Read more...]

Filed Under: DID Education, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, emotional pain, Physical Abuse, Ritual Abuse, sexual abuse, The Power of Music, Therapy Homework Ideas, Trauma Tagged With: abused children, Broken Hearts, Broken hearts become brand new, Compassion, DID / MPD, DID Survivors, Dissociation, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Effects of Trauma, Emotional Healing, emotional pain, Everybody falls sometimes, Faith, Good vs. Evil, Healing, Healing from DID, Healing from Violence, Heartache, Hope that doesn't ever end, Kathy Broady, Kindness, Kutless, Miracles, Move the mountains, Overcome the Odds, Overcoming Adversity, Overcoming Darkness, Sadistic Abuse, sexual abuse, Silent prayers get answered, Silver Lining, Spiritual Battles, Spiritual Strength, Strength, Strength to Rise, Support Groups, Trauma, Trauma Survivors, What Faith Can Do

I Knew You Could! — An Encouraging Children’s Story

By Kathy Broady MSW 43 Comments

  The healing process for survivors of abuse and neglect is very difficult.  While it is a rewarding journey, it is a painfully difficult process. Trauma survivors with Dissociative Identity Disorder typically have lots of child parts in their systems.  Sometimes these child parts may seem to outnumber the adults! Working with the kids is an important part of the healing process.  Inside kids often know a lot … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Child Alters, DID Education, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Internal Communication, Kathy's Video Comments, Podcasts, Stories for Child Insiders, therapy, Therapy Homework Ideas, trauma therapist Tagged With: AbuseConsultants.com, BlogTalkRadio, BTR, Child Abuse, Child Parts, Children's Story, Comfort, Corrective Emotional Experience, Corrective Experience, Craig Dorfman, Determination, DID / MPD, DID Survivors, dissociative, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Emotional Healing, Goals for DID Therapy, Healing, Healing Process, Health, I Knew You Could, I think I can, Inside Kids, Insiders, Internal System Work, Kathy Broady, Kid Parts, Little Engine that Could, mental health, System Work, Trains, Trauma, Trauma Survivors, treatment for DID

Life-Changing Heartbreak Hurts

By Kathy Broady MSW 38 Comments

    Something about heartbreak totally changes a person. Repeated heartbreak. Changes your life. I’m not sure I can put words to it yet, but I know it happens.   Depression. Sadness. Loss. Grief. Pain.   It consumes your thoughts, your mind, your time. What hurts the most?   Abandonment?  Abuse?  Neglect?  Betrayal?   Dishonesty? Physical pain?   Sexual trauma?   Aloneness?   I … [Read more...]

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