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Abandonment — A Painful, Tender Hurt for Dissociative Trauma Survivors

By Kathy Broady MSW 68 Comments

  Abandonment is such a tender issue for trauma survivors.  Most survivors with Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID/MPD) and Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) have had more than their fair share of genuine abandonment instances. For severe trauma survivors, abandonment would have been experienced over and over in various situations: Each time your parents or caregivers turned a blind eye to the sexual abuse … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Anxiety, DID Education, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, emotional pain, Online Therapy, therapy, Therapy and Counseling, Therapy Homework Ideas, Trauma, trauma therapist Tagged With: Abandoned, Abandonment, Abusive Parents, Alone, Aloneness, Anger, Anxiety, Attachment Issues, Borderline Personality Disorder, BPD, Building Relationships, Childhood Sexual Abuse, Crisis, CSA, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Dysfunctional Family, Emotional Crisis, emotional pain, Healing, Isolation, Kathy Broady, Low Self-Esteem, Maintaining Relationships, Online Support, Online Therapist, pain, Physical Abuse, Safety, Self Esteem, Self Harm, Self Injury, sexual abuse, Support Group, therapy, Treatment Goals for DID, Trust, Worthlessness

Do’s and Don’ts for Singleton Friends of Multiples

By Kathy Broady MSW 64 Comments

    I am not sure who wrote the following list of “Do’s and Don’ts for Singleton Friends of Multiples”.  This list was e-mailed to me years ago by a person with Dissociative Identity Disorder, saying this list was comprised by an anonymous group* of multiples.   I am sure that there could be many other suggestions added to the list, but for today, I will post it in exactly the same format as I received … [Read more...]

Filed Under: DID Education, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Friends of Multiples, Supportive Spouses Tagged With: Abuse, Boundaries, Child Alter, Child Parts, Crisis, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Emotional Crisis, How to be friends with a multiple, Kathy Broady, Listen, mental health, Multiples, Multiplicity, Safe Touch, Safety, Singleton Friends, split personality, Spouses of DID survivors, Support for DID, Support for trauma survivors, Support Team, Supportive Family Members, Supportive Friends, Supportive Spouses, Trauma, Trauma Survivors

Understanding Child Parts in the Dissociative System

By Kathy Broady MSW 48 Comments

Child parts come in all shapes and sizes - small, tall, skinny, short, chunky, pristine, messy, filthy, princess-like, raggedy, male, female, quiet, noisy, screaming, crying, silent, confused, dazed, sleepy, busy, playful, happy, sad, angry, fearful, bouncing, babyish, stiff, awkward, hurting, numb. As different as they are, they all have similar qualities.   They are typically some of the oldest, most knowledgeable … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Child Alters, DID Education, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, mental health, therapy, Therapy and Counseling Tagged With: Abusive Environments, Age Progression, Child Abuse, Child Alter, Child Parts, Crisis, DID Therapy, DID/MPD, dissociative, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Dissociative Splitting, Dissociative Trauma Survivor, Effects of Child Abuse, Effects of Trauma, Emotional Crisis, Frozen in Time, Healing, Internal System, Kathy Broady, Kid Part, Little Ones, Memories, Multiplicity, No Escape, Protection, sadistic, splitting, Survivor, therapy, Trauma, Trauma Memory, Trauma Survivor, treatment for DID, Treatment Goals for DID, Treatment Process, Unmet Emotional Needs, Unmet Needs

Overcoming Instability Issues and Unsuccessful Memory Work

By Kathy Broady MSW 19 Comments

      Kerro commented: I have a question about stability. I accept that I need to be reliable, motivated, responsible and willing to delve into things I generally don't want to delve into. As for stability - I can see how a stable client is easier to work with for a therapist. However, what if the beginning stages of therapy have resurfaced old issues or retraumatised the client to the extent that … [Read more...]

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10 Qualities a Therapist Recognizes in a Good Client, part 1

By Kathy Broady MSW 43 Comments

Most clients quickly think of the many qualities they want in their therapists.  However, are those clients also thinking about whether or not they are presenting themselves as the type of client someone would want to work with?  As an experienced psychotherapist, I am proposing that there are many criteria for clients to consider about themselves as well as about their prospective therapists. Many of the … [Read more...]

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