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Split Decisions

By Kathy Broady MSW 38 Comments

  When you have Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID or DID/MPD), and you’re thinking as a multiple personality -- thus having a multitude of different thoughts at once time -- it can be very difficult to make decisions.   How do survivors with DID ever make up their minds? How do survivors with DID decide whose opinion to follow? How do survivors with DID ever decide what is best for … [Read more...]

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Getting Back Those Lost, Missing Chunks of Time

By Kathy Broady MSW 39 Comments

  Many dissociative trauma survivors have issues with time. Sometimes the past sneaks up into the present.  Sometimes the present disappears.  Sometimes there are two time zones (or more) occurring at the same time.  Sometimes there are huge gaps in time.  Sometimes time stands still.   It can be confusing to say the least. Have you ever had a flashback from some year gone by overwhelm your current … [Read more...]

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