• Home
  • About
    • Kathy Broady, MSW
    • Laura Boettger, LPC
    • Testimonials
  • Consultations
    • Phone Consultations
    • Email Consultations
  • DID Education
    • Hiddenton Bear Dissoci-ACTION Story Packs
    • Dissociative Experiences Scale (DES)
    • Scoring the Dissociative Experiences Scale (DES)
    • List of All Articles on Discussing Dissociation Blog
  • Blog
  • Videos
  • Liability Agreement
    • Privacy Policy
    • Disclaimer of Liability Agreement
    • Kathy’s Waiver of Liability
    • Laura’s Waiver of Liability
  • Dissociative ART
  • Contact

Discussing Dissociation

Thoughts from a DID Systems Specialist

  • Healing Process
    • DID Education
    • Mental Health
    • Online Therapy
    • Power of Music
    • Therapy
    • Therapy and Counseling
    • Therapy Homework
    • Transference
  • DSM Diagnoses
    • Anxiety
    • BDP
    • Compulsive Hoarding
    • Depression
    • DID/MPD
    • Dissociative Identity Disorder
  • DID System Work
    • Artwork
    • Child Alters
    • Integrations
    • Internal Communication
    • Introjects
    • Stories for Child Insiders
    • Bears of Hiddenton Point
  • Trauma and Abuse
    • Domestic Violence
    • Mind Control
    • Emotional Pain
    • Fear
    • Physical Abuse
    • Ritual Abuse
    • Self Injury
    • Sexual Abuse
    • Trauma
  • Funny Stuff
    • Fun Bird Videos
    • Fun!
    • Maggies
    • Puppies
    • Uncategorized
  • Supportive Helpers
    • Family Members of Trauma Survivors
    • Friends of Multiples
    • Supportive Spouses
    • Trauma Therapist
    • Prevention of Sexual Abuse
  • TV and Video
    • HBO’s Series “In Treatment”
    • Kathy’s Video Comments
    • One Life to Live
    • United States of Tara
    • Podcasts
You are here: Home / Archives for Conflict

Easter Weekend: Sorting through the Layers Within

By Kathy Broady MSW 25 Comments

  Hello hello, It's the Easter weekend -- a complicated and conflictual weekend for most dissociative trauma survivors. So many layers of your inside levels will be awakened, aware, involved, wondering, waiting, going, sitting, thinking, watching, feeling, remembering, refusing, believing, fighting, crying, calling, hiding, etc. It's a time of being pulled in dozens of different directions all at once. Lots … [Read more...]

Filed Under: DID Education, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, emotional pain, Fear, Fun!, Internal Communication, mental health, Self Injury, Therapy Homework Ideas, Trauma Tagged With: beauty, Body Memories, caterpillars, Conflict, Darkness, DID / MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Easter, Easter Weekend, Emotional Intensity, emotional pain, fighting inside, fighting the darkness, Finding caterpillars, finding the beauty, Gentle, Headaches, Healing, Healing Journey, Heartache, holiday weekend, it's ok to know, Kathy Broady, Kindness, Leaving the Darkness, Self Injury, Soothing, Trauma memories, you are allowed now

Just for FUN!!

By Kathy Broady MSW 13 Comments

All too often, the healing work for dissociative trauma survivors is so very heavy, and filled full of pain, heartbreak, struggles, anguish, horrors, fears, conflict, etc.  Too many days can too easily feel like the healing process is far too difficult to be worth it.  When it feels like that, it is really important to remember to take a few breaks from the hard stuff, and to save room for fun.  It’s like … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Child Alters, Depression, DID Education, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, emotional pain, Fun!, Puppies, Stories for Child Insiders, Therapy Homework Ideas, trauma therapist Tagged With: anguish, baby ducks, Conflict, DID / MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, ducklings swimming, elephants, Emma the pug, emotional pain, fun for the kids, have a laugh, have some fun, healing work, heartbreak, Just for fun, Kathy Broady, laugh, little pig, pug dogs, stop and smell the roses, take a break, waterfalls

Split Decisions

By Kathy Broady MSW 38 Comments

  When you have Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID or DID/MPD), and you’re thinking as a multiple personality -- thus having a multitude of different thoughts at once time -- it can be very difficult to make decisions.   How do survivors with DID ever make up their minds? How do survivors with DID decide whose opinion to follow? How do survivors with DID ever decide what is best for … [Read more...]

Filed Under: DID Education, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Internal Communication, sexual abuse, Trauma Tagged With: Abuse, Abusive Parents, Amnesia, Amnesiac Wall, Conflict, Conflicting Emotions, Control Issues, Decision Making, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Dissociative Wall, Dysfunctional Family, Emotional Conflict, emotional pain, heartbreak, High-risk behaviors, Independent Thinking, Internal Chaos, Internal Communication, Kathy Broady, Learning to Think, Manipulation, Mixed Feelings, multiple personality disorder, Multiplicity, Sex Offender, sexual abuse, Sexual Assault, Sexually Abused, Sexually Abused Children, split personality, splitting, System Work, Think for yourself, Trauma, Trauma Survivors, trauma therapist, Trauma Therapy, Treatment Goal for DID, Wounding

20 Signs of Unresolved Trauma

By Kathy Broady MSW 240 Comments

    Many people enter the therapy process with minimal awareness of their trauma history.  When the trauma survivors are dissociative, they have the ability to block out an awareness of their trauma.  They may know that their family had problems, or that their family was dysfunctional, etc, but they may believe they were never abused. However, blocking out conscious awareness of trauma does not mean … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Depression, DID Education, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, emotional pain, Fear, Featured Post #2, Kathy's Video Comments, mental health, Prevention of Sexual Abuse, Self Injury, sexual abuse, therapy, Trauma Tagged With: Abuse, Addictions, Anorexia, Anxiety, Attachment Issues, Black and white thinking, Body Memories, Bulimia, Conflict, CSA Symptoms, Depression, DID/MPD, Dissociation, dissociative disorders, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Dysfunctional Relationships, Eating Disorders, emotional pain, Fear, Flashbacks, Health, Kathy Broady, Lost Time, mental health, Missing Time, pain, Panic Attacks, Perpetrators, Psychological trauma, Rescuer role, Self Destruction, Self Harm, Self Injury, Self-hatred, sexual abuse, Splitting (psychology), Suicidal Behavior, Suicidal Thoughts, Suicide, Trauma, Unresolved Trauma, Victim role

Expressing Anger Instead of Pain

By Kathy Broady MSW 37 Comments

  Every now and then, Dr. Paul Weston (Gabriel Byrne) from HBO's series, "In Treatment" comes out with a good line, full of depth, and accurate to the therapy process. In one of the episodes I saw this week, Dr. Weston says, "Is it easier to be angry with me than to look at your own pain?"  His client was throwing all kinds of angry jabs at him when clearly she was angry, upset, and miserable about her own … [Read more...]

Filed Under: DID Education, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, HBO's Series "In Treatment", mental health, therapy, Therapy and Counseling, trauma therapist Tagged With: Anger, Complex Dissociation, Conflict, Deflecting Pain, DID/MPD, dissociative disorders, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Dr. Paul Weston, Family Dynamics, Fear, Gabriel Byrne, Guilt, HBO Series In Treatment, Host Alters, Host Part, Humiliation, In Treatment, Kathy Broady, Listening, Looking at your pain, Memories, Ongoing Abuse, Ongoing Trauma, Ongoing Violence, pain, Perpetrators, Projection, Sadistic Abuse, Shame, Switching, Talking to Insiders, Therapist, therapy, Transference, Trauma memories, Trauma Survivors, trauma therapist, Traumatic Memories

  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • Next Page »

Support this Site

Your relationship with this site is greatly appreciated!

Discussing Dissociation remains free (and ad-free) for dissociative trauma survivors all over the world. There are hundreds of articles and thousands of helpful comments. The amount of information and guidance you can find at this site is exemplary. As this site grows, the time, costs, and energy required to maintain DD increases significantly each year. It’s free for you, but not free for me.

If you find support, encouragement, and value in what Discussing Dissociation provides for you, please consider supporting this site with a monthly cup of coffee for Kathy, a working lunch, or healthy treats for the puppies.

MONTHLY RECURRING DONATION

  • $5 /month
  • $15 /month
  • $25 /month
  • $35 /month
  • $55 /month

ONE-TIME SUPPORT

Unique offers of support are valuable as well. Select any amount of your own choosing to give as a one-time offer of support and appreciation.

Need to cancel your recurring support? Go here.

Let’s Connect

  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • Pinterest
  • RSS
  • Twitter

About Me Here


Kathy - a clinical Social Worker, surrounded by kelpies, who enjoys puzzles, pianos, pizza, pretties in nature, and people with Dissociative Identity Disorder.

Read more

Looking For Something?

Popular Posts

  • 10 Tips For Spouses and Partners of Survivors with Dissociative Identity Disorder
  • 20 Types of Dissociative Splits
  • Introjects – What are Introjects?
  • 20 Signs of Unresolved Trauma
  • Do You have Athazagoraphobia?
  • Working with Difficult and Destructive Alters
  • What is a Perpetrator Introject in a Dissociative DID System?
  • Don’t Touch My Stuff !!
  • The Love / Hate Relationship for Borderlines
  • THANK YOU for a Wonderful 2020! WE had a GREAT YEAR!

Recent Comments

  • Brian on Do You have Athazagoraphobia?
  • MissyMing on Compulsive Hoarding and Dissociative Disorders
  • MissyMing on How’s Your Journey Going?
  • Louisa on 10 Tips For Spouses and Partners of Survivors with Dissociative Identity Disorder
  • Sean on When You Suddenly Lose Your Therapist
  • Rachel on When You Suddenly Lose Your Therapist
  • OFIFOTO on Compulsive Hoarding and Dissociative Disorders
  • OFIFOTO on How’s Your Journey Going?
  • OFIFOTO on How’s Your Journey Going?
  • Foxy Roxy on 10 Tips For Spouses and Partners of Survivors with Dissociative Identity Disorder
  • Shiro on 10 Tips For Spouses and Partners of Survivors with Dissociative Identity Disorder
  • May on 10 Tips For Spouses and Partners of Survivors with Dissociative Identity Disorder
  • Daryl on Videos for DID Systems and Dissociative Trauma Survivors
  • Shiro on THANK YOU for a Wonderful 2020! WE had a GREAT YEAR!
  • Pearly on Do Dissociative Trauma Survivors Actually Lose Time?
  • Caden& kids, even Judah ;) on THANK YOU for a Wonderful 2020! WE had a GREAT YEAR!
  • MyCircleOfLife on Thank you, and Merry Christmas Eve
  • MyCircleOfLife on A Thank You to Santa’s Reindeer
  • Daria on Do Dissociative Trauma Survivors Actually Lose Time?
  • MissyMing on Do Dissociative Trauma Survivors Actually Lose Time?

Copyright © 2021 Kathy Broady, MSW. All rights reserved. No part of this may be reproduced or utilized in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying, recording, or by any information storage and retrieval system, without permission in writing from Kathy Broady, MSW. Discussing Dissociation accepts no liability for advice or information given here or errors/omissions in the text. It is merely intended as a general informational overview of the subject for healthcare professionals, trauma survivors, and those reading the DiscussingDissociation site.