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5 Kinds of Emotional Support Needed by Dissociative Trauma Survivors

By Kathy Broady MSW 39 Comments

Emotional support is definitely needed by dissociative trauma survivors. So..... what is emotional support? I often get emails and questions from friends – partners – spouses of dissociative trauma survivors.  These loved ones are often unsure about how to best support their partner amidst all the darkness.  These are the partners who care.  But they don’t know what to do.  They don’t know how to … [Read more...]

Filed Under: DID Education, DID Forum Support, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Family Members of Trauma Survivors, Featured Posts #4, Friends of Multiples, Supportive Spouses Tagged With: Building Relationships, Compassion, consistency, DID friendship, DID support people, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Having fun together, learn about Dissociative Disorders, Open mindedness, Sense of humor, Supportive Spouses, Willing to learn

Wintertime – A Dark Night for Winter Solstice

By Kathy Broady MSW 17 Comments

  Well…. it’s December 21st in the northern hemisphere.  Making today the Winter Solstice. In the southern hemisphere, like in Australia, this is the Summer Solstice. I originally wrote this article when I lived in Dallas.   The weather in Dallas was nearly 80 degrees Fahrenheit that day, making for a very warm day even though it is considered to be the official first day of winter.  It’s the Winter Solstice and … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Anxiety, Depression, DID/MPD, emotional pain, Fear, Mind Control, Ritual Abuse, Trauma Tagged With: Compassion, Current-day Safety, Darkness, DID / MPD, DID Survivors, Dissociative Survivors, emotional pain, Empathy, Freedom, Full Moon, Healing from Ritual Abuse, Kathy Broady, Longest Night of the Year, Lunar Eclipse, Moon, Picturing Dissociative Identity Disorder, RA, Ritual Abuse, Ritually Abused, Sadness, Safety, Safety from Abuse, Safety from Perpetrators, Season Change, Shortest Day of the Year, Spiritually Abused, The Dark Day, Trauma Survivors, Winter Solstice

A Double-Sided Halloween Weekend

By Kathy Broady MSW 31 Comments

  It’s Halloween weekend again -- a season full of flashbacks and trauma for many dissociative trauma survivors.  It feels dark.  It feels scary.  In some ways, it's the worst time of the year, and if this is the case, the flashbacks are pretty horrific.  So......... let's do a less scary flashback with this article.    Think back to 2010.  That year, back in 2010, I was reminded of the dichotomy our society … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Depression, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, emotional pain, Family Members of Trauma Survivors, Mind Control, Ritual Abuse, Supportive Spouses, Therapy and Counseling, Trauma, trauma therapist Tagged With: 2010 World Series Championship, 2010 World Series Game 3, Anxiety, baseball, Being hated, Body Memories, Celebrations, Compassion, Darkness, Depression, DID / MPD, DID Survivors, dirty money, dissociative disorders, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Dissociative Trauma Survivors, Double-sided, Feeling hated, Flashbacks, Forced into darkness, Gentleness, Greed, Halloween, Halloween weekend, Hate Crimes, Healing, Internal World, Kathy Broady, Kindness, Little Bo Peep, Mental Torment, money is the root of all evil, PTSD, Pumpkin, RA, Ritual Abuse, Sadistic Abusers, Sadistic Ritualized Abuse, San Francisco Giants, Secrets, Sex Slave Industry, Sex Slavery, Terror, Texas Rangers, Trauma Survivors, Violence, Warmth

What Did Your Mother Teach You?

By Kathy Broady MSW 29 Comments

  Mother’s Day.  Mother's Day is a hard day for a lot of dissociative trauma survivors.  It’s a day full of mixed emotions, painful longings, unhealed heartbreak.   It's so complicated, especially when you think about how important  mothers are to their children, and what their behavior teaches their children. Mother's Day hurts the people who were hurt so much by their mothers. Mothers are a complicated subject, … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Child Alters, DID Education, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, emotional pain, Family Members of Trauma Survivors, therapy, Therapy and Counseling, Therapy Homework Ideas, Transference Issues, Trauma, trauma therapist Tagged With: Abandoned by my mother, Abandonment, Abuse, Abusive mothers, Bad Mothers, Caring, Child Parts, Compassion, Compassionate Women, Corrective Emotional Experience, DID / MPD, DID Survivors, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Dissociative Survivors, Dissociative System, Emotional Healing, emotional pain, Female Therapist, Gentleness, Good Mothers, Guilt, Healing, Hurtful Mothers, Kathy Broady, Kid Parts, Kindness, Mother Issues, Mother Transference, Mother's Day, my mother abandoned me, Neglectful Mothers, Patience, Projection, Safe Therapists, Self-less, Separate the past from the present, Shame, Transference, Transference Issues, Trauma, Trauma Survivors, trauma therapist, Trauma Therapy, Working through mother issues

Do You Need Faith to Overcome the Effects of Trauma?

By Kathy Broady MSW 50 Comments

  FAITH ??! Do you need faith to overcome the negative effects of trauma?   Faith?  Isn't that a religious or spiritual term, Kathy?   Don’t worry – I’m not a preacher – I’m not going to preach at you.   But I do believe in a thing called faith.   I do believe there is goodness and light in the world.  And I believe there is evil and darkness in the world.  There can be many complex, complicated … [Read more...]

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