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Don’t Touch My Stuff !!

By Kathy Broady MSW 26 Comments

  Through the years, some of the most popular articles of the Discussing Dissociation blog has been about compulsive hoarding.    Compulsive Hoarding and Dissociative Disorders   Land of the Free?   I can’t explain their popularity on this blog, other than the way a rash of television programs have increased the awareness of the complications about hoarding. However, hoarding issues are typically … [Read more...]

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Compulsive Hoarding and Dissociative Disorders

By Kathy Broady MSW 42 Comments

Compulsive Hoarding is a cluttery mess!! What makes this happen? Have you seen homes that look like this? Does your home look like this? Are you also a dissociative trauma survivor?   Compulsive hoarding, or disposophobia, is a psychiatric condition that affects millions of people.   Compulsive hoarding is an obsessive need to acquire and keep possessions, even if these items have little value, are … [Read more...]

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Attachment to the Perpetrator

By Kathy Broady MSW 35 Comments

  I saw another television documentary on Jaycee Lee Dugard - the young woman who was kidnapped at age 11, held captive for 18 years, and found alive, along with her two daughters on August 26, 2009. At the time of the documentary, Jaycee was about 40 years old. Jaycee spent 18 years held captive in the backyard of a registered, violent sex offender, Phillip Garrido.  Garrido fathered Jaycee's two daughters, … [Read more...]

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The Love / Hate Relationship for Borderlines

By Kathy Broady MSW 35 Comments

  There are distinct differences between Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) and Borderline Personality Disorder (DID).  There are many overlapping symptoms, and some therapists believe that all trauma survivors with DID are also BPD.  I, however, do not hold that perspective. In my opinion, not all trauma survivors with DID are BPD.  However, I will guess that the greater portion of DID'ers are also borderline.  … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Borderline Personality Disorder, DID Education, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, emotional pain, mental health, Self Injury, therapy, Transference Issues, trauma therapist Tagged With: Abandonment, Abandonment Issues, Anger, Attachment, Attachment Issues, Betrayal, Black and white thinking, Borderline Personality Disorder, BPD, Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Fatal Attraction, Idealization, Intense Relationships, Interpersonal relationship, Jealousy, Kathy Broady, Love-Hate, mental health, Self Harm, Self Injury, Therapeutic Alliance, Therapeutic Bond, Therapeutic Relationship, Trauma Survivors, trauma therapist, Unstable Relationships

20 Signs of Unresolved Trauma

By Kathy Broady MSW 240 Comments

    Many people enter the therapy process with minimal awareness of their trauma history.  When the trauma survivors are dissociative, they have the ability to block out an awareness of their trauma.  They may know that their family had problems, or that their family was dysfunctional, etc, but they may believe they were never abused. However, blocking out conscious awareness of trauma does not mean … [Read more...]

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