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Mind Control Programming Basics III: Individuality Survives Programming

By Kathy Broady MSW Leave a Comment

“You’ll still be you.”

 

That’s a line from one of my favorite movies, Muriel’s Wedding — an old movie with a very young Toni Collette.

 

“You’ll still be you.”

 

And these words are the theme of this blog post by Rocking Complacency. No matter what horrible darkness has happened to you, underneath it all, in between the splittings that happened to survive it all, you are still you. And no one can take you away from you.

 

That’s a good thing. Because being you is important. Hold tight to yourself, because knowing who you are, and who you can be, and who you had to be is crucial to your healing.

 

But through it all, you’ll still be you.

 

That’s a good thing.
 
 
Update:
 

Re:  Rocking Complacency articles.

Thank you for your participation and comments on Discussing Dissociation (DD),  in your interest regarding the Rocking Complacency (RC) articles about mind control related topics, and the DD articles related to about mind control and programming issues.  I appreciate hearing from you and I know that you have been waiting for quite some time for additional information.

I know that RC is working on the eBooks, as mentioned.  I apologize that it is taking longer for these books to be available than I had first expected.  I do hope to have them available, but I still cannot give you a specific date. I’m sorry about that!

In the meantime, if you still have questions or concerns, I want to encourage you to arrange an Email Consultation with Laura (here’s the link).  Laura has done extensive study in the areas of programming and mind control and she is very much an expert in these areas of work for dissociative systems.  She is as safe as safe can be, and truly does understand issues related to mind control and programming. She is a rare find, and I recommend her highly.

I am confident that Laura can answer your questions with a level of sophistication that will be  exceptionally helpful.

Thank you again for your consideration of this option.   If you choose to write to Laura, I am very sure that you will be happy with the Response that you receive.

And, as soon as I know more about the RC eBooks, I will be sure to let you know.

 

 

I wish you all the best in your healing journeys as you learn to find and to meet all your inner selves.

 

Warmly,
 
Kathy

 

 

This painted girl by Anya Brock has the caption -- "Even if it's someone else, it'll still be you." What a great caption for the theme of Rocking Compacency's article.
This painted girl by Anya Brock has the caption — “Even if it’s someone else, it’ll still be you.” What a great caption for the theme of Rocking Compacency’s article.

 

 

Copyright © 2008-2018 Kathy Broady MSW and Discussing Dissociation

 

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Filed Under: DID Education, DID/MPD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, emotional pain, Mind Control, Ritual Abuse, Trauma Tagged With: Dissociation, Dissociative Disorder, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Healing, Health, Kathy, Kathy Broady, Muriel, Muriel's Wedding, Rocking Complacency, Toni Collette

Comments

  1. Pilgrim says

    January 15, 2016 at 11:21 pm

    You dont be you anemor not relly. The persin you did be go away. You dont get them back

    Reply
  2. Pilgrim says

    July 12, 2015 at 8:28 pm

    No, youre not still you. You become a different person. Theres a before and an after. And you change completely,
    And then it happens again. And again. And again.
    Dozens of times.
    Every time, youre different. Youre not you anymore. The stuff that happens. It shatters your heart and your mind and your soul, and over and over again untio there is no “you” left.

    Reply
  3. Pilgrim says

    December 20, 2013 at 11:35 pm

    can you explane this articole to me and wendy in 10 year old words please because we want to unerstand it better we read it two times but we dont get it yet

    Reply

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